You have either heard it recently, or judged someone with deficit character. In either case, you're on the receiving end of a wound. Civility, harmony, and goodwill are mature choices, usually made following the realization that we dig sh*t holes with criticism, discord, and self-hate.
The last three years have provided ample opportunities for digging holes. I did. Fortunately I recognized what I was doing and chose a different path - not falling in the very hole I had dug.
Follow in the way I began!
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